The Masterís role in slave training

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The Masterís role in training is to provide the slave with support, direction, encouragement, insight, change, challenge and establishing or reinforce values. Throughout all of the areas shown below, a Master uses many techniques to stimulate cognitive, emotive, and behavioral change. Behavior, emotions, self-image and thoughts are always considered.

This list, of course, should not be considered all inclusive.

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Direction & Support


Providing the slave with a real feeling of your acceptance of who she is and what she wants to be.

Providing hope, reassurance, and encouragement.

Establishing a Dominant/submissive relationship.

Setting limits and guidelines.

Establishing a clear path of what is expected.

Defining goals.

Gathering Information

Gathering of relevant information about:
1) Present problem, life tasks, goals and lifestyle.
2) Past experiences and memories.
3) Detailing slaveís beliefs, goals and expectations.



Clarifying vague and faulty thinking about what is expected.

Evaluating and explaining the consequences of ideas and actions.

Correcting any mistaken ideas that she has about herself or You.


Helping generate obedience and service.

Stimulating movement in the direction of submission.

Clarifying new feelings that are generated during training about effort and results.


Interpretation Ė Identification

Interpreting inferiority feelings & goal of superiority.

Identifying what is being avoided during training.


Slave becomes fully aware of the new lifestyle without help.

Slave knows and accepts what needs to be changed.

In spite of insight, she may feel emotionally blocked or offer resistance to change.

Consequences of misbehavior.


Emotional Acceptance of slavery

When needed, promoting an emotional breakthrough.

Offering corrective or missing developmental experiences.

Using discipline training and narration.

Focusing on positive self-image.

Examining core beliefs.


Converting insight into a new attitude.

Fostering experiments, concrete steps to establish slavery.

Making the unproductive feelings and actions become unpleasant.


Encouraging all new movements toward significant change.

Affirming positive behavior and feelings.

Evaluating progress and new efforts.

Providing positive ways to show new behavior.


Social Interest

Using slaveís better feeling and understanding of self to promote more cooperation in training.

Extending feeling of submission.

Promote the ďGiving one's allí. Putting 100% into the relationship and taking risks.

Establishing the Masterís goals as the slaveís goals.

Goal Setting

Challenging slave to let go of self and old fictional goal.

Dissolving her current style of life and guiding her in a new direction.

Promote living by new values.


Inspiring the slave to love the struggle involved in becoming a slave and preferring the unfamiliar.

Strengthening the feeling of connectedness & desire to serve.

Promoting a path of continual growth for self.



Discussion of values, the meaning of ones' life, new lifestyle and the commitment to slavery.


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