Accurately timed Self Bondage
...The problem with the ice release and other semi accurate means of Self Bondage
is that they're not accurate enough in some circumstances - we all have real
lives and sometimes it would be nice to indulge when you have for example an
hour to spare and no more, for this I find that relying on a melting ice cube or
three doesn't quite make the grade.
There is, of course, at night or in a darkened room, the method of lights on
timers so you can eventually see a combination lock and free yourself that way,
but that means you must have enough movement to see the lock and actually turn
it, plus such luxuries as blindfolds are unavailable...
The ICE in ICE Bondage...
...It's specifically do with the timed release mechanisms which are commonly used in many self bondage scenarios, I say timed in the loosest sense of the word, as who can tell exactly how long it will take for any given lump of ice to melt! I've seen the same amount of ice take an hour or more extra depending on factors such as the minor fluctuation of room temperature or a slight breeze being present!
In this section, I'll outline some of the common release mechanisms driven by the ubiquitous ice, and why ice is such a good thing to use!...
Self Bondage Release Device Techniques
The biggest problem with self bondage is coming up with a safe, reliable way to ensure release at the time wanted. Unless you're really willing to live dangerously, you need some absolutely certain release, either as the primary release or as a backup. To me, this rules out anything electrical - you never know when there will be a power failure, or a battery will go flat. It also rules out anything mechanical that has even the slightest risk of getting jammed, stuck or otherwise going wrong. I'm also not keen on the rather complicated (Heath Robinson or Rube Goldberg, depending on your cultural background) arrangements that tend to result when trying to adapt commercial products to this need. It's nice to have something that depends on very basic laws of physics, that just don't go wrong...
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20 year old Amai Liu gets bullied and sexually humiliated by Amber Rayne. Amai takes a good spanking and a huge dildo up her pussy while bound. Then she gets strapon fucked in her tight little ass for your pleasure.
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Nettles in BDSM and Self bondage
...By active play I refer to the top actively using nettles as an instrument of erotic torment. Nettles are best used in a gentle stroking or dabbing action, which will cause those stinging hairs that come into contact with the recipient's skin to work their effect, without damaging the remaining hairs. The number of hairs is, of course, finite, so a single stem will lose its effectiveness with use. Depending on the type and origin of the nettles (see earlier details), the top will want to ensure that the hairs on the stem as well as the leaves are used...
What exactly is self bondage?
...Self-bondage is loosely described as tying or restraining yourself in some manner for a length of time until you can free yourself, either by simply removing the restraints or by obtaining the means to do so, either by natural or mechanical methods. These methods range from simple to extremely complex and systematic, and are usually very ingenious.
Self-bondage is practiced for many reasons; the person in question has an interest in bondage and has no one to oblige them, the person does not trust another to tie them up, or prefers to practice alone for the thrill and excitement of the unexpected. Personal fantasy often plays a very important part...
Ice Safety - Self-bondage Technique
...This section contains a summary of the safety information from the Ice in Ice
Bondage Section, plus a few additional points...
About Ice Bound - Self bondage Technique
...So, there I was, completely immobile in the middle of this locked room, chained
to the radiator, blindfolded, gagged, hands cuffed behind my back, legs strapped
together so I closely resembled a worm - five hours to possible discovery...
WOW. The rush was like nothing I'd ever experienced in my life, and unlike
anything else I would experience for years afterwards - this was the real thing!...
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Darling is probably the best bondage model in the world at this time. She can handle strict bondage like no other...but can she be a dirty little slut while tied up so tight? Chanta sits her big ass on Darling's face while in a back-breaking arch, fucks her hard while in a very strenuous strapado and flogs her while she is pulled up on her toes by her tits....and all of this is before the forced orgasms, face slapping, spitting and more!
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How to Play with Nipple Clips
...Before attachment, it's a good idea to gauge the pressure to come by affixing a clamp to the web of skin between your thumb and index finger. Don't neglect a thorough warm-up of the area to be clamped. Tease those nips until they're standing proud and tall. (Men's nipples erect, too, only not as much as women's.) You might employ the old porn star trick of twirling an ice cube with a hole through it around the nipples to perk them right up.
As you'll be constricting (and maybe even temporarily halting) blood flow to the clamped area, it's a good idea not to leave the clamps on for more than 10 to 15 minutes at a time. There's another compelling reason to limit duration—they hurt way more coming off than going on. The feeling of blood returning and nerves springing back in the compressed region is quite memorable. Or, as subjects have been known to exclaim upon clamp removal: "Ahhh...errr...arRR...OOOWWWWW!" This fact leads to the Nipple Clamp Dilemma: you know they're going to hurt coming off, so you delay removal, but the longer you delay, the more it's going to hurt. Did I say "hurt"? I meant to say "produce a powerful sensation centering you in the moment."...
How to Use Nipple Clamps During Bondage
...Nipple clamps put constant direct pressure on the nipples during bondage play. They heighten nipple sensitivity from the pressure and the resulting drop in circulation. When you remove them, they cause another level of pain as blood rushes back to the nerve endings...
...General Bondage Safety
Unless you have a play partner who isn't going to leave you alone during your
session, don't. That's right - don't use a gag. They may be exciting, but the
excitement isn't worth your life.
I realise that you'll probably go use a gag anyhow (Hey, I tried!), if you do,
make sure you can breathe around it, and if you are a little sick it won't back
up your throat. Being gagged with panties and hose sounds very nice and is
erotic, but again, only with a partner handy!
If you're really intent on using a gag, try it on for at least three hours when
you're not helpless, to make sure you can put up with it!...
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