Female domination techniques, tutorials

Marking him carries much more emotional impact than collaring him does, and represents a deep, enduring femdom relationship...

There are two ways to get the butt plug into him: you can work it in yourself, or you can have him work it in, with nonsexual pushes from you...

Spitting upon him is a wonderful tool of humiliation, both physical and emotional. Think of the statement being spat upon makes, think of the emotional impact the action carries...

The strap-on! The perfect accoutrement for she-who-would-be-he...

Face slapping is an often dreamt-about but rarely admitted-to physical humiliation fantasy that many men find to be a big turn-on...

Let me give you an example of what would be verbally humiliating versus what would be abusive...

You know, slaves just love to see the domina in the highest heels she can walk in, and well-trained slaves know how to give the mistress a really great foot bath followed by a massage, but how many of them actually know how we suffer for them?...

The leg mans favorite time of year is the spring, when the female comes out of hiding and the weather gets warm enough for the ladies to start wearing their pumps and hosiery again, before shedding the hosiery altogether...

An interesting combination to be sure! And a foot fetishist who likes to mix in a little humiliation, or pain, or training with his foot worship and CBT will just love these techniques!...

A glove fetish can be a personal one, like wearing latex or smoking is for me, and it can be the object of a fetishist...

For the submissive male, the domina wearing a uniform clarifies and solidifies the power exchange between her and the fetishist or submissive...

Ah, yes! Smoking! One of my few pleasures left in life, and it is getting more and more difficult to indulge in this fetish (which can be a personal one, or the obsession of the fetishist) unless I am in the privacy of my own home or chamber. And that is why smoking has now become more popular as a fetish...

The corset is an erotic garment that can be worn by the dominant and the submissive as well as the fetishist, whether female or male...

My absolute favorite fetish! I just love latex. How much do I love it? I love it so much that I buy it in colors other than black!...

Having a rape or resistance fantasy is a source of great embarrassment and confusion for some. Yet for millions of others, men and women, these two fantasies - imagined or enacted-are sacred in the midnight purple world we call BDSM, and visited often...

Why else would I giggle and jump around while shocking someone who is suspended upside down and wearing layers of latex, with his hands secured to the floor? Only his genitals are exposed for the torture...

A very popular and interesting combination of aspects, and one that you will enjoy greatly if humiliation is on your list of favorites and his...

There are so many varieties of cross-dressers that one domina could not hope to experience them all...

As free spirits, we would like to think that the sky is the limit as we play our little games, but we know that visibility varies greatly depending on where you are...

Did you ever wonder where BDSM fantasies come from? The stork doesn`t bring them, the Chinese don`t deliver them, and no one has ever found one under a Christmas tree...

There are essential ingredients that we need to enact the fantasies that thrive behind the veil. On an emotional level, communication, trust, and caring, plus the desire to discover and accept one...